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My wife torments me everyday because I had an affair. I wish that I hadn’t cheated on her, it was wrong and I feel so much grief and shame over it. I just wish she would quit rubbing my nose in it. I know that she hates me, otherwise, why else would she continue to torment me with my past? I can’t live like this anymore.

Why do you think this woman is not forgiving her husband? She thinks she is benefiting from using her negative feelings against her husband. She is allowing the hurt she feels to control her thoughts about her husband to such a degree that she is using this power over her husband to make herself feel better.

And its true! She might feel better for about five minutes until her unforgiving heart needs fed again. She will envision her husband in bed with another woman and then abuse her husband with it every chance she gets. This is how she deals with the pain.

Those of us who have dealt with the issue of adultery can relate to this woman’s wounded heart but what about her husband? What happens to him? What is he supposed to do for the pain he is feeling?

Not everyone can forgive properly but without true forgiveness, the marriage will be threatened by lack of trust, which only a spiritual perceptiveness can repair. With that said, this woman can either continue wallowing in her pain or come out from her selfish feelings she is now living in and decide to forgive her husband.

So lets look at this issue a bit closer. The wife is hurting “big time” over her husband’s stupid and sinful mistake but he is remorseful and asking for forgiveness. Therefore, this woman needs to stop living for herself, come out of her selfishness and start taking care of her marriage before there is no marriage left to take care of! Wouldn’t you agree?

What can she do that would help her to forgive her husband of adultery?

1. She needs to realize that it doesn’t CHANGE anything by NOT forgiving. The time and energy wasted on an unforgiving heart is utterly useless. She cannot turn back the clocks here and pretend it didn’t happen. She needs to let the pain finally go by forgiving.

Granted, you can never forget the past, but that doesn’t mean you cannot learn to forgive completely either, which is essentially not abusing your spouse with it every darn chance you get.

In marriages that aren’t so great to begin with, adultery is used as a weapon to manipulate and control the adulterer with. It is a strong weapon, wielded at the most opportune times to feel better about self, to get what you want, to seem like the good guy, and sometimes to destroy the marriage through divorce. But none of this is necessary.

I know this first hand because I have been there and done that. I have been on both sides of this issue. Both sides are filled with heartache and despair but it can be rectified through the proper foundations.

We are all human beings and make mistakes but God knows in our heart if we are remorseful of our mistakes He will give us a chance to ask for His forgiveness. Of course we need time to reflect, and to lament, and to even dwell on the hurt we are feeling but we cannot go on living on that foundation or the marriage will fall.

We have to be willing to make amends and to give our spouse the same forgiveness that God has forgiven us!

Jesus says we are to forgive the adulterer IF they have stopped in their weakness and have repented. We have all sinned. Is this woman better than her husband because she wasn’t the one caught in the act of adultery? I don’t think so.

We are all sinners! Maybe we don’t cheat on our spouse, maybe we only abuse our spouse with our angry and hateful words. In my book, the woman who constantly abuses and berates her husband over his past is sinning! She is hurting the marriage tremendously! She is no better than her husband.

God doesn’t have different levels for different sins. A sin is a sin no matter what that sin is. That is why Jesus said to the crowd, “Those WITHOUT SIN cast the first stone.” No one could cast a stone at the adulterous woman because they have all sinned! Jesus knew the woman was truly remorseful for what she had done, and that is why he said, “Go and sin no more.”

Jesus didn’t say, “Those who have not committed adultery cast the first stone.” Jesus was telling us how we’re all sinners and a sin is a sin in the eyes of God.

“Woman where are they? Has no one condemned you?”

“No one sir, ” she said.

“Then neither do I condemn you,” Jesus declared. “Go and leave your life of sin.”

2. She needs to come out of her selfishness and forgive her husband with completeness of her heart and stop dwelling on what was and start fixing what is!

True forgiveness means a change of heart. If we say that we have forgiven but in our heart we are still bitter and angry then we have not “really” forgiven but “really” lied to our self.

The good man brings good things out of the good stored up in his heart, and the evil man brings evil things out of the evil stored up in his heart. For out of the overflow of his heart his mouth speaks. Luke 6:45

True forgiveness only comes from having Faith in Jesus Christ. Why is that? Because it is through Christ that WE HAVE BEEN FORGIVEN. Take Jesus Christ out of the equation, God forbid, and forgiveness of our sins would be no more!

With God’s help we can accept Christ’s forgiveness and stop in our wrongdoing.

God made him who had no sin to be sin for us, so that in him we might become the righteousness of God. 2 Corinthians 5:21

The simple exchange works like this, our sins were given over to Jesus Christ at His crucifixion and His righteousness is given to us when we believe. Without belief or acceptance in the source of true forgiveness we will be unable to forgive others when they sin against us.

What can the husband do when his wife won’t forgive him?

I had one husband write in and tell me the pain and suffering he was feeling and it tore me up.

After cheating on a spouse, you feel so helpless and worthless. You would do anything to go back and change what happened and there’s nothing you can do. When a spouse does not forgive and torments you continuously about your mistake, it wears at your innermost being. The sorrow and grief and shame are unbearable. I could not think of a better gift and proof of true love and character than forgiving someone that has hurt you. Especially someone who has hurt you deeply. I hope to experience this gift one day and be able to have a full heart once again.

In part 2 of this article we will focus on what a husband can do when his wife won’t forgive him.

Stay tuned! (Part 2) of “My Wife Won’t Forgive Me!”

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Simply put, intimacy is more than sex or making love. It’s more than the physical or even emotional connection you feel with your partner. Intimacy involves a soul connection between two people.

While instant chemistry can be exciting and thrilling, the chemistry that makes marriages work usually grows over time. This special chemistry between two people involves excellent communication and self sacrifice more than physical attraction. It takes trust, patience, and willingness to talk and to listen.

With greater intimacy, married partners can have a more satisfying and fulfilling romantic life. They can learn what pleases each other. For example, your wife may not like flowers all of the time. She may desire a massage, or a well cooked meal. Or your husband may not want the latest fashionable sweater. It’s a clean car or your full attention, he desires most.

Being able to express what you want is important and genuinely listening to your spouse are key factors in building an intimate romance. Unfortunately, these skills aren’t fully developed in most marriages, so as the saying goes: “Married people can be some of the loneliest people in the world.”

What generally inhibits partners from building deeper relationships with each other?

Cary Barbor writes, “One partner (often the woman) will fight to break down defenses and create more intimacy while the other (often the man) will withdraw and create distance. So the “dance of intimacy” follows: If the woman gets too close, the man pulls back. If he moves too far away, she pursues, and so on.” — Finding Real Love – Intimacy and Alienation, Psychology Today (Jan 2001)

She also comments that we often try to recreate and fulfill our childhood desires through our marriage partners. We’re attracted to people because they remind us of our parents (OR what we wanted our parents to be). When we realize that they are too much like our mother or our father, we become frustrated, communication breaks down, and we build self-protecting “walls”.

So how can you grow in intimacy with your marriage partner? Here are some keys to unlock the mystery of deeper intimacy.

Determine what you really need out of the relationship. Is friendship more important than financial stability? Or must the bills be paid on time even if your spouse doesn’t have much time with you? Can you sacrifice long conversations for more affectionate behavior? Or do you need to talk things out no matter how long it takes? The list can go on.

Determine what your spouse really needs. At first your husband or wife may be reluctant to share what he or she needs. They may have never really thought about it in an organized fashion. Maybe it would help to have him/her write down his/her desires when he/she is relaxed. Some suggestions: do a really nice deed for your partner like, drawing a warm bath or cooking a nice meal. Then ask them to take the time to think about what they need in the relationship.

Make an effort to change your behavior everyday. If your partner needs more space, draw back a little. If they need more of your time, tune out any distractions and pay attention to your spouse. You may start with fifteen or twenty minutes with no TV, phone, computer, radio, etc. and then gradually increase your time to one to two hours of uninterrupted time per day.

Finally, take care of yourself. If you are frazzled, you won’t be a fun person to be around. Make sure that you have your own “me” time everyday where you can pray, meditate, and take care of your personal needs. Whether it’s writing in a journal, reading a good book, giving yourself a manicure, or just vegging out, do it. You and your spouse will be happy you did.

Keishia Lee-Louis is the Executive Editor of http://www.Married4Good.com (November 2005). Her work has appeared on iVillage.com, BibleResourceCenter.com, and in many other publications.
Currently, she’s writing a book on marriage and relationships which will be published in Spring 2006. To read more of her work see http://married4good.blogspot.com

Perhaps one of the biggest stumbling blocks in becoming successful
is past regrets. Too many times we become so obsessed with all of
the times in the past when we were unable to achieve our goals that
we believe we are doomed to fail at anything we do.

What actually happens is that we “program” ourselves to fail. We
are still living in the past, unable to break away from the “failure
chain” that links us to our past selves. So we doom ourselves to
repeating the same old mistakes over and over again.

In order to do things differently, we must learn to be different.
Our thoughts, actions and attitudes must all be different than they
were in the past. And one big way to be different is in the way we
percieve our mistakes.

There is no room in the life of a successful person for regret.
Regret is a waste. It does nothing to enhance who you are, and, in
reality, all it does is feed on you. Regret will bleed you dry
emotionally, physically and spiritually.

If you want to be free to achieve your dreams and goals and
live your life to it’s fullest potential, you must not allow regret
to keep you chained to the past in a prison of “should of’s” and
“could of’s”.

One of the best ways to loosen the power that regret has on you
is to accept your past mistakes. Allow yourself to be human and
realize that, as a human, you will make mistakes, and that’s okay,
because that is how you learn.

But now, let’s take it one step further. Not only should you
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Why in the world should you do that? Because if you are aware
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To every action there is an equal and opposite reaction. So you
can look at what you did in the past to achieve the wrong results –
and use that as your blueprint for what you need to do to achieve
the right results.

So when those past mistakes come to mind, don’t get stuck in regret
and allow yourself to follow the same path that caused the mistakes
in the first place. Instead, embrace those mistakes and use them as
a valuable learning tool – the roadmap to success that they actually
are.

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• Local consulting – it is not a secret that passing the recession – we see tremendous consolidation activity on the consulting companies market. This in turn leads to consulting rates increase. In our opinion – you should rather seek for small and tiny consulting companies to get top quality expertise and reasonable rates
Large Corporation Syndrome

• The Professionals Time – contemporary corporation could recruit high quality employees – wrong – if you are following the winning business strategy – you have to pick management team to be able to motivate the professionals to work for pennies

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